When a guy tells you...

(Meant to get this one out before I got hit by a truck at 30mph on my bike)

When a guy tells you that his best friend is his ex and that she will always be in his life (no kids together)...stop seeing this guy.

He is telling you everything you need to know. This guy is not ready for a new relationship and clings on to the past.  There is nothing wrong with being on good terms with an ex. When the ex still plays such dominant/permanent role in his life (RED FLAG) it really looks bad on the guy. If she became a lesbian it's fine.
Should you choose to keep seeing him it will only be a matter of weeks or even days before they get back together. You are the disposable one in the situation. So do yourself a favor and dispose yourself from the situation.
Sure he made you laugh, he was sweet, you had a good time and he will want to remain "friends." In reality his sweetness is based in selfishness. Keep in mind this dude most likely collects ex's and goes back in forth between them leaving little to no room for your "friendship."
This guy lacks boundaries, is kind of a mess, has no clue what he wants, and spreads himself too thin. He, is an idiot. Let his ex deal with it.

Amen


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