The Cat Spot

Guy : So you don't wear deodorant (slightly perplexed) Why don't you wear deodorant? Me : The armpits are sacred. Putting lavender oil and Himalayan salt on the armpits is so much more magical. 

Just kicked out this dude who was not being a gentleman. I blew a huge picture and just upped my standards along with boundaries. Crazy being sensitive. He was not listening or respecting me when I said, "It's important for me to go to bed now because I’m getting up early so I can attend my practice and achieve one of my dreams." He just didn’t get it. A gentleman would have taken a cue, and thought, “wow this lady is trying to do something here and it’s sexy how focused she is.” He would have respectably gotten up to leave and ask if we could meet again for tea or lunch and then headed on his merry way. No, this guy just didn’t get it at all. I actually had to raise my voice to get him to leave, which was unexpected.  A gentleman is a most cherished adornment.  I may have had a bum in my house :/